How long in the LifeStyle?
4 years
What is your relationship?
Married 5 years
How did you get started?
After going to several titty bars and a few nude beaches, it became clear to us that we wanted more out of our sex lives than a bedroom dance. After many discussions we decided to try going to a swingers club just to see what it was REALLY all about. Our first club experience wasn’t that great, but it got us very excited none the less. After a few weeks, we decided to try another club and had an exhilarating experience. We didn’t “hook up” with anyone, we were simply scouting, but the experience was nothing short of amazing. We began attending regularly, and still do.
What do you enjoy most about the LifeStyle?
The openness, trust and honesty toward each other that the LifeStyle has added to our relationship.
What do you enjoy least about the LifeStyle?
Pushy people, that seem to think we ”owe” them something.
What’s the most exciting place you’ve done it?
Too many to choose from, but I’d have to say the most exciting was during a party at our house. We all decided to go for a naked walk on the golf course. We didn’t walk very far before the romance of the full moon overtook us all.
Which do you prefer in others, a Friendship or a Sexship?
It depends, we’re always looking for new friends that we feel comfortable with and can do much more than just play. At the same time, it’s fun to meet new people, get
to know them a bit, and hit the sack for a one nighter, especially when you’re out of town.
Any advice for others, or those new to the LifeStyle?
Our advice is to take it slow, and communicate with each other. There is no reason to rush into anything, there is plenty of time and are plenty of hot couples out there.
We’ve seen many people get into the Lifestyle for the wrong reasons or simply jump in with both feet and drown. You need to be in a loving caring relationship before you start. The LifeStyle will not FIX a broken relationship, it can only enhance a good one.
