Confused New Swinger Guy

Dear LifeStyle Counselor,

LifeStyle Couples Questions - Confused New Swinger GuyI am new to the lifestyle and my girlfriend and I have been dating for about 2 years. She has been in the Lifestyle for nearly 7 years so she has a lot more experience than I do. I am upset because she has done things with other guys that she says she is not interested in doing with me, but wants me to continue to cater to her needs in the Lifestyle, please help as I am confused on what to do.

Signed confused New Swinger Guy

 

Dear Confused New Swinger Guy,

You need to think hard about how much of a deal this is to you, and as of right now, it’s clear that you are leaning towards “Yeah, its an issue”. If you can’t decide for 100% certain that it doesn’t matter to you at all, then there are problems. Remember the past is the past and you’re with her now and into the near future so focus on that. Yes it may be scary to you to think about so don’t. Ask yourself, if you should you be trying to change her, when you knew going in to this relationship what she had done? I would take it with a grain of salt, and enjoy that she could be your teacher and show you the ropes. If this is a major issue with you, then I’ll bet that there are problems later on. I’d consider ending it before it got to serious (soon!) if you are uneasy about her past. I am not one for breaking people up, but you need to resolve this or end it.

Sincerely,
LC

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