For those in the lifestyle there are many turn ons and some may say that swingers have the most fetishes. What some newbies and even some veterans are unaware of, is that different couples join swinging sites for several different reasons. Though most join for the full swap, newer fetishes see a whole new breed of people joining to fulfill their sexual high.
In the past few years there have been new people entering the lifestyle and embracing cuckolding. Although a different meaning that swinging, some cuckold couples like to swing and cuckold to mix things up.
Recently the internet is rife with husbands enthusiastically soliciting other men— often larger, hotter, sexier men than themselves to have sex with their wives while they watch.
This isn’t like swinging, and it’s not a threesome. Cuckolded men also known as cucks, they only observe their wives’ infidelities, they don’t participate. And that’s what turns them on. They’re left out, looking on as the woman they love climaxes with a better man than them. This is a form of psychological sadomasochism.
Still some swingers in the lifestyle may have a bisexual fetish. More than often it is usually the woman, who missed her college years and wants to experiment with another woman. This can be a turn on for couples and being bisexual you can enjoy the best of both worlds. It’s true there are fewer men who are bisexual, but the beauty of the lifestyle is that their wives embrace their wants, just as the husbands embrace theirs. The sad part of the bisexual male is that not too many men can come forward on a website and discuss their desires as easily as a woman can. Although we as a society have come a long way, a man being with another man is still taboo to some people.
Some couples are turned on by BDSM and join the lifestyle to find other like minded couples that are into their debauchery. These couples can enjoy a night at home in their dungeon or if they have a local swinger club they may come across a Saint Andrews Cross for some fun.
There are those who like to watch others having sex, they are known as voyeurs. Almost everyone has a little voyeur in them, just as most couples may like to watch an adult movie.
Finally there are those that enjoy the lifestyle because they are exhibitionists. An exhibitionist enjoys being watched by others while being nude and or having sex.